Palibe choyipa koposa kuyesera kukambirana ndi winawake wovala magalasi: timakonda kumva kuti pamene anthu sanalumikizane ndi ife, siamene akukambirana. Timamvetsetsa. Tikamalankhula, kusinthana malingaliro, ndikunena nkhani, sitimayankhula ndi anthu, timayesetsa kulankhula nawo.
Kulumikizana ndikofunikira pothandiza anthu kumva kuti akumva, kumvetsetsa, komanso kuyamikiridwa. Popeza kulumikizana kwa 80% kumawerengedwa kuti sikunena mawu, titha kuphonya zina mwazofunikira pazokambirana tikamamvera foni.
Msonkhano wapakanema zingakhale zothandiza pankhaniyi. Kugwiritsa ntchito kwake kugawana zowonera ndikugawana zolemba, sikuti mumangowona mtundu wa zokambirana; mumadziwanso zapanthawi yeniyeni. Mutha kulumikizana pamasom'pamaso, kupanga malingaliro anu kapena mfundo yanu, ndikumveka, chifukwa maso onse ali pa inu. Inde, mungakhale mukuyankhula pa zenera, koma kusiyana kumawonekera pamene mutha kukweza nsidze, kugwedeza pang'ono, kapena kugwedeza mutu kuchokera kwa membala aliyense wa gulu lanu.
Zomwe munthu amalandila polumikizana zowoneka ndizofunika kwambiri pakulankhulana momasuka komanso momasuka. Nthawi zonse pamakhala china chake chomwe chikuchitika mukayang'ana wina m'maso. Onetsetsani kuti mwawayang'ana m'maso. Yesani Callbridge lero.
