Palibe choyipa koposa kuyesera kukambirana ndi winawake wovala magalasi: timakonda kumva kuti pamene anthu sanalumikizane ndi ife, siamene akukambirana. Timamvetsetsa. Tikamalankhula, kusinthana malingaliro, ndikunena nkhani, sitimayankhula ndi anthu, timayesetsa kulankhula nawo.

Kulumikizana ndikofunikira pothandiza anthu kumva kuti akumva, kumvetsetsa, komanso kuyamikiridwa. Popeza kulumikizana kwa 80% kumawerengedwa kuti sikunena mawu, titha kuphonya zina mwazofunikira pazokambirana tikamamvera foni.
Msonkhano wa pakompyuta ungathandize pankhaniyi. Pogwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe ake ogawana pazenera ndi kugawana zikalata , simungowona mtundu wa zokambiranazo; mumadziwanso mfundo yofunika kwambiri nthawi yomweyo. Mutha kulumikizana maso ndi maso, kudziwitsa maganizo anu kapena mfundo yanu, ndikumveka, chifukwa maso onse ali pa inu. Inde, mungakhale mukulankhula kudzera pazenera, koma kusiyana kwake kumaonekera pamene mutha kuwona nsidze zikukwezedwa, kugwedeza mapewa pang'ono, kapena kugwedeza mutu kuchokera kwa membala aliyense wa gulu lanu.
Zomwe munthu amalandila polumikizana zowoneka ndizofunika kwambiri pakulankhulana momasuka komanso momasuka. Nthawi zonse pamakhala china chake chomwe chikuchitika mukayang'ana wina m'maso. Onetsetsani kuti mwawayang'ana m'maso. Yesani Callbridge lero.