Xa kuziwa ekubonakaleni kokuqala, indlela odibana nayo ("ukupakisha" kwakho) yiyo yonke into. Abantu ngokwendalo "isilayi esibhityileyo" (indlela yengqondo ebandakanya ukujonga unxibelelwano kunye nokuzoba izigqibo ezimxinwa nezikhawulezileyo ngokusekwe kwinto ebonwa) njengendlela yokwenza ingqiqo yento engaziwayo. Ngokwemvelo sithatha izinto ezivelisa iprofayile ezingqondweni zethu ukuze siqonde ngcono ukuba sijonga ntoni nokuba ngumntu, indawo okanye into.
Nali elona candelo lililo; yenziwe kwinqanaba lokuqonda, ngamanye amaxesha asazi nokuba siyayenza. Kodwa xa sele uyazi ukuba isebenza njani, unokufunda ukusebenza nayo. Kukuqonda ukuba ungakhetha njani kwaye usebenzise ezi mpembelelo zingacacanga zinika nabani na umda wengqondo ofunekayo ukuphumelela umthengi okanye isikhonkwane udliwanondlebe. Ukuba ujongeka ulungile, uziva ulungile, kwaye xa uziva ulungile, ukhupha ukuzithemba kwaye xa uqinisekile, ufumana le nto uyifunayo. Makhe sijonge amaqhinga ambalwa ezengqondo onokuwasebenzisa kwintlanganiso yakho elandelayo yokukunceda uphumelele:
Khetha imibala ngobulumko
Xa useta intlanganiso yakho ebonakalayo, qaphela imibala oyinxibileyo, kunye nemibala ekujikelezile. Umbala uvusa iimpendulo ngokweemvakalelo. Umzekelo, umbala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ngumbala owuthandayo wonke umntu kwaye unxulunyaniswa nobukhosi; tyheli ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo ukubetha, njengoko ibrashi kwaye ingxola; Iorenji linxulunyaniswa nexabiso elifanelekileyo, njl.
Hayi Intloko yakho Ewe
Ukuba ufuna ukweyisela umntu ukuba indlela yakho yokucinga yeyona ndlela ilungileyo njengoko uchaza ingcinga yakho, qinisela intloko. Kwintlanganiso ebonakalayo, oku kuya kuchaphazela abathathi-nxaxheba ukuba bakholelwe ukuba le nto uyithethayo iyinyani kwaye inomdla kubo. Ngamandla eengcebiso ngokugqibeleleyo.
Gcina iiPalms Zakho zijongane
Cwangcisa intlanganiso yakho ebonakalayo ukuze ikhamera yehle kancinci ukubonisa iintende zakho. Xa wenza umthambo, ukugcina iintende zakho zivulekile kwaye zivule infers ukuba uyangeneka. Ukuvulwa kwesandla kubonisa ukuthembela ngokuchasene nonxibelelwano oluthile imikhwa emibi njengokukhomba iminwe yakho okanye ukuwela iingalo ezinokuthi zithathwe njengezivaliwe okanye ezinobundlongondlongo.
Yamkela Ukuthula
Umzuzu wokuthula okanye ozolileyo unokusetyenziselwa inzuzo yakho. Akukho sidingo sokuziva ungonwabanga ukuba kuthe cwaka kwintlanganiso yakho ebonakalayo. Qaphela ukuba amaxesha okuthula anyanzela abantu ukuba bathethe, nto leyo enokubangela i-ramble okanye ulwazi oluninzi ukuba luvuze. Endaweni yoko, jonga ulinde kwaye ubone ukuba impendulo yakho iza kuphela.
Imincili
Ngokwendalo, abantu bajonga ngokwabo. Ukuba ubonakalisa intlanganiso yakho ebonakalayo kwisimo esihle kwaye unemincili, abanye baya kulandela ngokufanelekileyo. Le yindlela elula yokuhlangana njengomntu owenza umbono wokuqala okhumbulekayo nonamandla.
Mjonge ngamehlo
Ukujonga phantsi amanqaku akho okanye ukude kumgama kuya kukwenza ubonakale uneentloni kwaye ungathandeki. Kunoko, ngexesha lakho intlanganiso ebonakalayo, qiniseka ukuba ujonga wonke umntu emehlweni njengoko uthetha. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ubonakale ukhona kwaye unobuhlobo kwaye wenze wonke umthathi-nxaxheba azive equkiwe kwingxoxo. Zama ukuskena wonke umntu obandakanyekayo malunga ne-60% yexesha ubandakanyeka kwintlanganiso yenyani.
Nciphisa Ingxoxo Yakho
Gcina umkhondo wokuba ukhawuleza kangakanani ukuziveza. Unokuba nabaphulaphuli abaninzi kwintlanganiso ebonakalayo kwaye ukuba uyangxama ngokukhawuleza, into oyithethayo ayinakugcina wonke umntu enomdla. Ukucotha, unxibelelwano olulula ngundoqo. Kwaye xa uthetha kancinci kancinci, ngokungazenzisiyo udlulisela umoya wokubaluleka nodumo, njengale nto uyithethayo kufanelekile ukuba wonke umntu anciphise isantya sakhe ukuze akunike ingqalelo ekufaneleyo.
Maninzi amaqhinga orhwebo okwenza ukuba ubonwe kwaye uve, kodwa zama ezi kwintlanganiso yakho elandelayo yenyani (okanye ngokobuqu) kwaye ujonge ukuba uyakwenza njani impembelelo kuye wonke umntu odibana naye kwishishini. Vumela Izakhono ezikhethekileyo zokubonwa kweCallbridge kukwenza ubukeke ulungile kwintlanganiso yakho elandelayo yenyani. Ngevidiyo epholileyo yeHD kunye ne-1080p entywilayo Itekhnoloji yeenkomfa yevidiyo, unokwenza umfanekiso obalaseleyo obonisa ukuzithemba.
